10 ways to not rape someone- can’t find it!

Feministers!  A while back- quite a while, I think- someone posted a list of ten things guys can do to make sure they don’t rape anybody.  It was snarky and smart; I’m trying to find it again, but the Googles are failing me.  I think the list was posted here with a link to a small blog where it was also put up, but I’m not 100% on that.  Since this was where I saw it, though, I’m hoping somebody here knows where I can find it again.

Help?