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By Professor Foxy • 13 years ago

Ask Professor Foxy: How Do We Have A Threesome?

This week-end column “Ask Professor Foxy” will regularly contain sexually explicit material. This material is likely not safe for work viewing. The title of the column will include the major topic of the post, so please read the topic when deciding whether or not to read the entire column.

Dear Professor Foxy –

I am a mid-20’s woman in a monogamous relationship with a man of the same age. We’ve been dating for almost five years, and we have a great relationship and a good sex life. I am confident that we have a lifetime together ahead of us. However, ever since my early 20’s, I’ve been really interested in fooling around with another woman. I’m not questioning my bisexuality or anything – in fact, I’m not very interested in those kinds of labels, that’s not what this is about.

I think that the desire has been growing stronger lately. I find myself fantasizing about it, and getting extremely turned on, and I’d really like to try a threesome with my boyfriend and another woman. I’ve talked to him about it, and he’s interested, but cautious. He had a threesome with an ex-girlfriend and one of her friends, and in the end, it destroyed the friendship between the two girls because of his girlfriend’s jealousy. I’m not a jealous person at all, and he knows that. And besides, I’m not interested in inviting one of my friends to join us sexually; for one thing, none of my girlfriends are bisexual, and even if they ...
By Professor Foxy • 13 years ago

Ask Professor Foxy: How Do I Have Sex With a Straight, Cis Guy?

This week-end column “Ask Professor Foxy” will regularly contain sexually explicit material. This material is likely not safe for work viewing. The title of the column will include the major topic of the post, so please read the topic when deciding whether or not to read the entire column.

Hi Professor Foxy,

I’ve been reading you column since you began writing for feministing and I love it. You’re the only person I can think of to turn too.

So I’m a mid-twenties queer lady with a conundrum. I have identified as queer or gay or a lesbian, depending on my mood, though these days I just think of myself as queer. I have never had a boyfriend or had sex with a cis ...

This week-end column “Ask Professor Foxy” will regularly contain sexually explicit material. This material is likely not safe for work viewing. The title of the column will include the major topic of the post, so please read ...
By Professor Foxy • 13 years ago

Ask Professor Foxy: How Do My Partner and I Compromise on Safe Sex?

This week-end column “Ask Professor Foxy” will regularly contain sexually explicit material. This material is likely not safe for work viewing. The title of the column will include the major topic of the post, so please read the topic when deciding whether or not to read the entire column.

Dear Prof. Foxy

I’m a lesbian and have been with my girlfriend for about four months. I was a virgin when we met (one of those mythical 25 y.o. virgins) and she had previously had a very small number of partners. We’re both clean and monogamous. Per her insistence, we always practice safe sex. Gloves. No oral. Her reasoning behind this is that she is saving skin contact for her wife. At one point, in ...

This week-end column “Ask Professor Foxy” will regularly contain sexually explicit material. This material is likely not safe for work viewing. The title of the column will include the major topic of the post, so please read ...
By Professor Foxy • 13 years ago

Ask Professor Foxy: How Do I Get Over My Boyfriend’s Viewing of Porn? And How Do I Stop Punishing Myself?

This weekly Saturday column “Ask Professor Foxy” will regularly contain sexually explicit material. This material is likely not safe for work viewing. The title of the column will include the major topic of the post, so please read the topic when deciding whether or not to read the entire column.

Dear Professor Foxy,

I know you probably don’t have time to respond to questions like these, but I don’t really have anyone to talk to and I’m milking all of the limited resources I have. I’ve been a fan of Feministing for a few months now, and I identify as a feminist cisgender gay male, but lately I’ve been having trouble practicing what I preach.

I’ve been in a wonderful healthy relationship with ...

This weekly Saturday column “Ask Professor Foxy” will regularly contain sexually explicit material. This material is likely not safe for work viewing. The title of the column will include the major topic of the post, so please ...
By Professor Foxy • 13 years ago

Ask Professor Foxy: How Do I Get Over My Boyfriend’s Viewing of Porn? And How Do I Stop Punishing Myself?

This weekly Saturday column “Ask Professor Foxy” will regularly contain sexually explicit material. This material is likely not safe for work viewing. The title of the column will include the major topic of the post, so please read the topic when deciding whether or not to read the entire column.

Dear Professor Foxy,

I know you probably don’t have time to respond to questions like these, but I don’t really have anyone to talk to and I’m milking all of the limited resources I have. I’ve been a fan of Feministing for a few months now, and I identify as a feminist cisgender gay male, but lately I’ve been having trouble practicing what I preach.

I’ve been in a wonderful healthy relationship with ...

This weekly Saturday column “Ask Professor Foxy” will regularly contain sexually explicit material. This material is likely not safe for work viewing. The title of the column will include the major topic of the post, so please ...