What Does a Feminist Look Like?: A Transmasculine Perspective

I found this video on twitter from Remy, the author. I think it does a great job of laying out much of what’s at stake for a truly inclusive feminism.

Transcript after the jump–thanks to Remy for providing it

Hey everyone, I’m Remy, twenty three years old, queer and trans academic and activist in Minneapolis, and I’m a feminist, but I take issue with some of the ideas that both cisgender and transgender folks sometimes carry on in the name of feminism. If you don’t know what ‘cisgender’ means, you might be one of them.

But seriously, this isn’t Whipping Girl— the healthy dose of transfeminine perspective that this celebration really needs is already in Julia Serano’s book. This is a transmasculine perspective on what I believe is the new face of feminisms. It shakes and troubles sex, gender, and sexuality altogether, at their cores. It is truly about gender liberation for everyone, and every body, everybody.

Let’s be honest, not only has feminism “not always been the most welcoming towards lesbians and transwomen,” as the founder of Feminist Coming Out Day states, but many forms of feminism and LGBT activism still put down marginalized genders and sexualities, and sexual behaviors and practices, while focused on their own ‘struggle for equality.’ We need to bridge more than just two movements here! There’s a whole lot more going on

… and P.S. When did it get erased that feminism has also been incredibly cruel to transmasculine folks?

Feminism, if it’s really about gender and not just women— cis and/or trans– means recognizing what’s already in the room, folks, in the way that Sara Ahmed describes the role of the feminist killjoy in her newest book The Promise of Happiness. This is about way more than sexism or marriage inequality. Feminism, to this “feminist, but” means working together through all of the genderist, racist, classist, transphobic, and downright oppressive words still spouting from the mouths of what I consider rather un-feminist feminists, as well as LGBT or queer and trans folks.

Take these not-so-fictional and anonymous bits of chatter on, fellow feminists! I need your help!

  1. A well-respected, cisgender, lesbian, feminist professor of Women’s and Gender Studies says, “I didn’t fight so hard and so long for women’s liberation just to have all of my friends become men!”
  2. Another professor of similar description is not supportive of multi-stall gender neutral restrooms, saying “I just wouldn’t want to use the restroom at the same time as a transgender person.”
  3. A self-identified straight transguy who recently started using testosterone, is overheard at a local queer bar saying “You’re just not really trans unless you use hormones.”

So what’s wrong with all of these vignettes? Where’s the feminist perspective, the feminist lens, the feminist slant, tilt…? It’s missing. So I’ve got a challenge for Feminist Coming Out Day– I’m coming out as a feminist, but declaring that I have huge problems with racism, classism, ableism, transphobia, trans exclusion, talking about gender in terms of women and men.

My challenge for all of you for the first ever Feminist Coming Out Day is to think really critically about our own implications and roles in these very systems that I’ve laid out with the three previous vignettes. Think about what’s wrong with those pictures! And what’s your role in stopping, interrupting, and problematizing? Because that’s where feminism’s at.

Truth is, we all benefit by co-creating a world in which gender liberation is a reality for all people, all bodies, everyone.

And that’s why I’m here with my shirt off, to show as an example what a transmasculine “feminist, but” looks like. See, my message of gender liberation, of solidarity with movements for gender freedom, of feminism, and community, is right here on my body– even if you can’t read it– it’s telling you that “all I need is your love and a revolution.” And it’s not wishy washy, folks. If we can all work to really, honestly love each other, respect and affirm each others identities and bodies– then we’ll bring about the revolution. But, fellow feminists, I need your help!

Feminist Coming Out Day, I challenge you to highlight this on your site. Spread the message: gender liberation is for everybody.

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