Thank you. I can really relate to this right now as I am also currently heavier than I have been in the past. As a committed feminist I try and try to instill healthy and body positive messages in myself and others, but the notion that I still should be skinnier just won’t go away. [...]

I don’t find the comparison of outing men hiring prostitutes to outing two men having sex offensive at all (but then I don’t see hiring a prostitute as a morally wrong act in itself). Both are examples of sexual practices that are shunned by mainstream culture, which is what causes them to be seen as [...]