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  • Tiffany commented on the blog post “You’re so ______”   3 years, 12 months ago · View

    Hi natasha,

    You’re absolutely right, learned helplessness, well put.

  • Tiffany commented on the blog post “You’re so ______”   3 years, 12 months ago · View

    Hi Liz, Honestly, it’s like we were dating the same person. My ex did the exact same thing, picking on particular aspects of my personality that made me “me”, and saying that he hated them, and that everyone around me hated them. I was always horribly insecure about my looks, and he picked on those [...]

  • Tiffany commented on the blog post “You’re so ______”   3 years, 12 months ago · View

    Hi Jacey,

    Thanks very much!

  • Tiffany commented on the blog post “You’re so ______”   3 years, 12 months ago · View

    Hi morgaine, You know, it’s funny, I sort of went what you went through about…maybe a year after I got away from my ex? One of my best friends got into an absolute nightmare relationship, and was going through all the exact same things, and I kept telling them that this was an abusive relationship, [...]

  • Tiffany commented on the blog post “You’re so ______”   3 years, 12 months ago · View

    Hi Laura, Your story sounds horrifying, I’m so sorry. It’s true, they rope you off from a lot of outside influences, and then that’s how they get you. They’re your only feedback from the outside world. I’m toying with a kind of follow-up post right now, I don’t know if it would be suitable for [...]

  • Tiffany commented on the blog post “You’re so ______”   3 years, 12 months ago · View

    Actually, that’s part of why I stayed with my ex for so long too, when I think about it. He would also always tell me that if I couldn’t make a relationship with him work, I was obviously too “immature” to make any relationship work.

  • Tiffany commented on the blog post “You’re so ______”   3 years, 12 months ago · View

    Hi sejones101, thank you so much. :)

    I’m so sorry to hear about your ex. It’s weird how long it takes for everything to sink in so you’re able to actually think it through, and articulate everything. Like your memories are locked in another room.

  • Tiffany commented on the blog post “You’re so ______”   3 years, 12 months ago · View

    That an angle I never thought of, sunset. Excellent observation.

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