Gina – I appreciate your feedback but I’m not clear on why you’re disagreeing with me – I didn’t make a difinitive statement about sexuality being genitalia based for everyone, but pointed out that it is for some people. It’s the people who say “I date women and trans men” who are (apparently) “leav out [...]

“I date women and trans men” is sexuality based on genitalia rather than gender. Which commenter Jessamine above seems to share. My preference is based on gender identity – men and trans men. I’m cis female. I don’t consider myself bisexual – in my mind, I’m a gal who like guys, thus straight. But – [...]