Hi Penny, thanks for replying. I can really see your point. Do you also feel like you have to act/look/dress like a stereotypical ciswoman? I felt like the author of this article was saying that she feels like she had to shed any masculinity she had in order to be the right kind of trans [...]

I read the article and this one a few times trying to understand the complexity of what you are saying. I’m still not sure I get it. My first thought was “why are you trying to tell people who they can like?” but then I wondered if maybe what you’re wanting changed is the specifier [...]