No, sex toy james, you are NOT being harsh – that article on Ms. is horrible, sex-negative sweeping generalizations promoting the abolition of all forms of sexual entertainment without a critical eye as to nuance or agency. And speaking of (lacking) a critical eye, I’m not terrible surprised the Ms. article was posted on Feministing. [...]

I think the take at flip flopping joy, including the comments – has a much more nuanced perspective, more along the lines of what Lori is saying. http://flipfloppingjoy.com/2010/08/06/eminemrihanna/ Also, at Sociological Images the comments talk abut how ironically ridiculous it is to say the it is “gross” that Rihanna participated in this video – I [...]