Related to your second paragraph – a male co-worker of mine recently “announced” that his wife was pregnant with their first by tacking up their sonogram outside his office (actually a number of guys on my floor have done this). I tried to explain to my other coworkers that this was strange to me – [...]

I see your point, I think we all want the military to quickly be converted into a LGBT-friendly organization, with all the correct training and support for members of all orientations. I do feel as though your arguments imply that there are no gay service members in our armed forces right now. The fact that [...]