Could you expand on the concept of “stigma management” for me? All I know right now is that I have never been physically attracted to someone who I *knew* to be a trans woman. I readily admit that not everyone in the world is gender-identifiable in the few seconds during which I might casually think [...]

An interesting piece for sure, definitely got me thinking…. but I had to stop and wonder at the “this isn’t about bodies” bit. Sex is, and will be for the foreseeable future, about bodies. We have them and they are a big part of what we use to make sex happen. We act as if [...]