Posts Written by Sarah

Where The Mindy Project Gets it Wrong

So, here’s the thing. I love Mindy Kaling. I want to love The Mindy Project. A smart woman is the lead in a TV show that portrays her as wholly flawed and skilled and human? Yes please. There have been a few cringe-worthy moments along the way – a joke about domestic violence in the first episode, a tasteless joke about re-entry after prison in another – but for the most part, I’ve enjoyed the show. There are few characters on TV whose imperfections are as hilarious as Mindy’s or whose insecurities ring as true to mine.

But last week’s episode (and I know, I’m late!) about the competition between midwives and obstetricians went too far. Positioning the two practices as competitors instead of separate professionals with different expertise was inaccurate and deprecating to the field of midwifery. The audience was clearly supposed to support Dr. Mindy, et al, in poking fun at and delegitimizing midwifery. It’s a tired trope, one that unnecessarily and perhaps unintentionally moves women’s reproductive care backwards.

In the episode, the doctors in Mindy’s practice are shocked to hear that they are losing patients to the midwives upstairs. They wonder why anyone would choose a ‘pretend doctor’ to deliver their baby when they could have a ‘real doctor’ performing their baby’s delivery.

But they miss the point completely: midwives support the mothers in delivering their own babies, while obstetricians deliver the babies themselves; the two distinct approaches to reproductive healthcare are virtually ...

Thank You Thursdays: Vulnerable Women

A SYTYCB entry:

Just yesterday, Erin Gloria Ryan wrote a fantastic piece at Jezebel on what she describes as “rape fatigue” – reaching her own emotional limits on writing about the horribleness that exists in this world. Erin makes herself exceptionally vulnerable in the piece, sharing her own heartache and profound emptiness in response to all of the woman-hating that has seemed especially amplified this week. The response has been overwhelmingly positive; we can all relate to the feelings that she bravely shared, and we’ve found strength and community in her vulnerability.

But what do we do when we’ve reached rape fatigue? What do we do when the conversations around rape and abortion and violence and hatred and invisibility and all ...

A SYTYCB entry:

Just yesterday, Erin Gloria Ryan wrote a fantastic piece at Jezebel on what she describes as “rape fatigue” – reaching her own emotional limits on writing about the horribleness that exists in this world. ...

The Viability of Pre-Mature Infants and the Disappearing of Motherhood

 

A SYTYCB entry

In a recent article over at the New York Times, Rahul K. Parikh discusses the difficulties that doctors face in determining the course of action for babies who are born at 23-26 weeks gestation, as many as 19 weeks pre-mature. The conversation is an important one; the idea that doctors have an emotional and ethical journey in their professions is, unfortunately, somewhat novel. But the piece is lacking something bigger than that – the voice and experience of mothers.

Parikh lays out the unfortunate reality that babies who are born “at the margin of life” – between 23 and 26 weeks gestation have an increased risk of developing conditions that will impact the quality of their lives, such ...

 

A SYTYCB entry

In a recent article over at the New York Times, Rahul K. Parikh discusses the difficulties that doctors face in determining the course of action for babies who are born at 23-26 weeks gestation, ...