Posts Written by NC73

A simple goodbye to a far-from-simple man

I was going to post a silly fluff piece about my dog this week. And that will come. But today, I’m writing something a little more serious.

I am sad today. I am sad, because Canada has just learned of the loss of one of its most prominent politicians, a few short months after he succeeded in bringing his party a level of electoral success that many had believed the NDP could never achieve. I am sad, because Jack Layton’s most recent Facebook post declared that he was determined to come back to politics, and he would fight his battle with cancer and win. I am sad, because regardless of one’s politics, it would be hard to deny that Jack Layton was a man who really, truly believed in his party’s platform. He was a man who cared about Canada and its people. He had many detractors, and although they may have come to different conclusions from him about what Canada needs, even they would have to admit that Layton was a man who cared. He never had the appearance of a power-hungry sellout; he was a man who believed every word he ever spoke. He was a man with passion.

About a month ago, the idea came to me to write a three-part series on my experiences meeting various celebrities. One of those celebrities was indeed Jack Layton. And I had set the idea aside for a later date. But then, a tired-looking Layton made the announcement ...

Come out to the SlutWalk to support victims of sexual assault!

Remember the cop in Toronto who said that women who don’t want to be sexually assaulted shouldn’t “dress like sluts“?

Well, activists in Toronto and elsewhere are fighting back! Toronto has organized the SlutWalk this Sunday. Come out for the march and stand up for every women who’s ever been told if only her hemline were longer, she might not have been raped. There is no justification for sexual assault – ever – and it’s time to stop slut-shaming and victim-blaming.

If you aren’t in Toronto or can’t make it this Sunday, other events are cropping up around the region. Come out to the Sackville Satellite event on April 4 or the London and

Remember the cop in Toronto who said that women who don’t want to be sexually assaulted shouldn’t “dress like sluts“?

Well, activists in Toronto and elsewhere are fighting back! Toronto has organized the SlutWalk ...

Sexual Assault Survivors Deserve Better: Calling Out the Ottawa Hospital and Sun Media

Cross-posted at Women’s Independence Network (http://winottawa.blogspot.com/2010/07/sexual-assault-survivors-deserve-better.html)
Here in Ottawa, in Ontario, and nationwide in Canada, we are used to waiting for certain hospital procedures. For some things, this is acceptable. I had a months-long wait time for my IUD consultation, for example, but that didn’t bother me; I had enough birth control pills to last me in the meantime, and the IUD insertion wasn’t a pressing matter that I needed handled right away.
But if I were sexually assaulted in my own community? I’d be looking for a snappy reaction. I would want to know that the evidence would be gathered in a timely, efficient manner, and that my case was being handled seriously.
Read this. (http://www.ottawasun.com/news/ottawa/2010/07/05/14616621.html) Read it now, ...

Cross-posted at Women’s Independence Network (http://winottawa.blogspot.com/2010/07/sexual-assault-survivors-deserve-better.html)
Here in Ottawa, in Ontario, and nationwide in Canada, we are used to waiting for certain hospital procedures. For some things, this is acceptable. I had a months-long wait time for ...

Refreshingly great advice from an advice columnist!

I love reading advice columns – a guilty pleasure of mine – but I often find myself approaching them fearfully, worrying that I’m going to come across some advice that’s going to offend me. Much of the time, columnists dish out advice that is sexist, patriarchal, offensive and sometimes even dangerous. We’ve seen many critiques of this sort of thing on this very website.
But today I read this, and it’s a refreshing case of the opposite! The Frisky’s Wendy Atterberry, of the “Ask Wendy” column, offers great advice to a help-seeker that is not only non-sexist, it’s downright feminist. Her advice to “Name Withheld” checks his entitlement:

You’re not a hard-line traditionalist or a domineering macho type? Good! Then ...

I love reading advice columns – a guilty pleasure of mine – but I often find myself approaching them fearfully, worrying that I’m going to come across some advice that’s going to offend me. Much of the ...

Racism and Hate Speech in Germany

I came across this news story today, and I think it raises some interesting questions about racism, xenophobia, censorship and hate speech.
(Forgive me if this isn’t the right place for this discussion; I’m posting it on a feminist space under the presumption of intersectionality, but that might be a stretch here.)
Holocaust deniers are, certainly, a truly ignorant group fueled by extreme deep-rooted racism. To simply deny or ignore the existence of one of the world’s worst, and easily the most infamous, genocides is irresposible at best, and to ignore it so quickly after it happened – in a time when many who fought in the war and suffered in the camps are still alive to tell their ...

I came across this news story today, and I think it raises some interesting questions about racism, xenophobia, censorship and hate speech.
(Forgive me if this isn’t the right place for this discussion; I’m posting it ...

Unwanted Pregnancy: How to act pre-abortion?

I just read this article at Sociological Images. It got me thinking about something that happened lately with my mother and I.
My mother (who is pro-choice and sex-positive, but a little uptight about women and drinking) and I were on vacation with some other members of my family – there were 9 of us there in total. My family tends to party pretty hard; when we go on vacation together, now that all of the kids are of legal age and none of us have our own kids yet, we’re at a really fun time in our lives. We go out to bars together when we’re on vacation and share pitchers of beer, bottles of wine, and many ...

I just read this article at Sociological Images. It got me thinking about something that happened lately with my mother and I.
My mother (who is pro-choice and sex-positive, but a little uptight about women and ...

10-Year-Old Girl Gets Canada’s Medal of Bravery

Here’s an awesome feel-good story of the day: A ten-year-old girl in Canada received one of the country’s highest honours for saving her mother’s life two years ago.
Karin Roy feel through the frozen ice of Mississippi Lake in March of 2007, and her incredibly bad-ass daughter Kelsey chose to save her mom from a terrifying death rather than run for safety.
I live near Carleton Place, the town where this happened, and let me tell you – wintertime around here is nothing but ridiculous cold. I can’t imaginge the guts this took. Check out her full story (along with other recipients of the award).
Congratulations on your award, Kelsey Roy!

Here’s an awesome feel-good story of the day: A ten-year-old girl in Canada received one of the country’s highest honours for saving her mother’s life two years ago.
Karin Roy feel through the frozen ice of Mississippi ...

A defense of “sexy” Halloween costumes

OK, so first things first: Let’s get the criticisms out of the way.
There are many problems with the nature of Halloween costumes that are considered “sexy.” The sexualization of youth and young girls, for one thing, is of course a big problem, such as the iconic “sexy schoolgirl” costume, or the sexualization of children’s characters (sexy Hermione, of the Harry Potter franchise, is a rather telling example). This is also related to the sexualization of submission (sexy French maid) and, in turn, the sexualization of pink-collar professions (think sexy nurse, sexy librarian) and, on the reverse, sexualization of positions of authority (sexy cop) or “bad girl” stereotypes (sexy pirate). These things are problematic because they point to the old-fashioned ...

OK, so first things first: Let’s get the criticisms out of the way.
There are many problems with the nature of Halloween costumes that are considered “sexy.” The sexualization of youth and young girls, for one thing, ...

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