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How does one prepare to be a Mother with a Disability?

I am 24 years old and in a committed relationship that will likely turn into a marriage within the foreseeable future. Also in the foreseeable future, we would like to have at least one biological child. Sometimes, just to see what sorts of decisions I might have to make in being a mother or what kinds of concerns I should have, I look at parenting websites and/or baby product reviews. A few days ago, I stumbled across this product review.
The product itself is used to prop up a baby bottle when the mother does not have both arms or hands free. Granted, I have heard a lot about how bottle-propping can be unsafe if it is done unmonitored. The comments on the post reflect this concern. However, a few comments do raise the issue of mothers who may not have the use of both hands and arms to feed a child as a result of a disability. I read the review because I know a young mother with sickle cell anemia, which can often cause severe pain in one’s limbs. She has said that sometimes, during flare-ups, that bottle-propping is one of the few ways that she can feed her son. She monitors him closely, but sometimes, she just finds it impossible to hold him or the bottle.

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