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Your wife needs to be pretty but you don’t!

I just wanted to vent about these stupid Hydroxytone commercials where these men are all oooing and ahhhing about how they just can’t believe how young their wives look since they started using Hydroxytone face cream. Why, it’s like they have their hot old wives back!!!! Of course, the men still have gray hair and crows feet and pot bellies but that’s okay…….as long as their wives keep themselves up to par he won’t have to go out and cheat, right??
This shit just always unnerves me. It’s the same with all the anti-aging stuff directed almost exclusively at women. Sadly, most women won’t even stop to reflect on why THEY are the ones always targeted by these ads…..yes, they are the primary consumers, but why? Could it be because the media is always reinforcing the idea that it is OUR looks that matter most of all, that our looks matter more than anything else about us and certainly our looks matter more than the looks of men do.
I have kept my looks and my figure…..for me just as much as for my partner. He has done the same. It’s just the outside pressure and constantly propping up of these hurtful double standards and the sense of obligation it instills among women and the entitlement it promotes in men that pisses me off.

It’s Up To You To Not Get Sexually Harrassed at Work!

According to The Huffington Post, here are a few things you can do to avoid being sexually harassed. Read up and take notes, ladies. Read this list to make sure you aren’t asking for it!!!!

Has the heady fragrance of Breast Health Month made it Sexual Harassment Month?
We have Dave joking about his office affair, Roman getting high profile help for raping a 13 year old, Coupled with the iPhone App that simulates looking up a co-workers skirt.
In Fiscal Year 2008, the Equal Economic Opportunity Commission (EEOC) received 13,867 charges of sexual harassment. Hey, I am not male bashing with these stats. 15.9% of those charges were filed by men. EEOC resolved 11,731 sexual harassment charges. They recovered ...

According to The Huffington Post, here are a few things you can do to avoid being sexually harassed. Read up and take notes, ladies. Read this list to make sure you aren’t asking for it!!!!

Has the ...

Is my insurance agent being sexist or am I imagining things?

Well, I think I have the presence of mind to tell when someone is being inappropriate, but sometimes when things happen that shouldn’t, I like to make sure it isn’t just me.
Long story short:
A tree fell on my house over the holidays. The insurance claim is in my name (hubby and I have different last names….radical, I know). My twenty-something insurance adjuster continues to return my phone calls by calling my husband. I leave him a message with my work and cell numbers and he responds by calling my husband and not me. This has happened 3 times so far. I even wondered if he was ‘splitting’ to try to get one of us to say something ...

Well, I think I have the presence of mind to tell when someone is being inappropriate, but sometimes when things happen that shouldn’t, I like to make sure it isn’t just me.
Long story short:
A tree ...