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Sexual harassment at my internship

I wasn’t sure where to write this, but I had to write it. I plan on coming up with a more formal list tracking what goes on at my internship later (for the purpose of handing it in to the director if I need to), but right now I’d just like to vent and perhaps attempt to sort out some feelings towards my internship. I welcome any input from the Feministing community. If anyone has similar stories they’d like to share, they’re welcome to. This is just here to tell my story.

I’m currently doing an unpaid internship with a non-profit. This particular non-profit is a 40 minute drive away that costs $20 every week. I earn only a little more than minimum wage at my regular job and give 12 hours of one of my off days to this internship. I work as hard if not harder than any of the other interns (we’re all unpaid) and put in extra time where I can. I have been told that my position was considered their hardest to fill as well as their top priority because the director of this non-profit really loves numbers. I conduct market research and interpret the data and I already improved on the previous intern’s work. I have attended every meeting and jumped at every opportunity to get to know my supervisors and fellow interns better. This has included events the senior staff members organized. This non-profit is staffed by ...

What if Ms. Fluke Wanted to Have Sex?

In the uproar over birth control it’s very appropriate that people call attention to the fact that BC is taken for a number of reasons. However, all this “paying so you can have sex” and calling sex “social activities” rhetoric makes me want to add something (or bang my head against the wall). What’s wrong with sex? Have none of these men had sex or wished to exercise control over when they’ll reproduce?

Today a friend of mine posted a comic strip of a woman saying she wants her contraceptives to be treated by insurance companies like other medication and listed all the reasons she took it. PMS, acne, ovarian cysts, etc. In the next panel Rick Santorum calls her ...

In the uproar over birth control it’s very appropriate that people call attention to the fact that BC is taken for a number of reasons. However, all this “paying so you can have sex” and calling sex ...

Utah may pass longest abortion waiting period in the nation! Please help!

Perhaps this hasn’t been reported on in the national press much because there is currently so much going on with women’s rights and choice. This is one more thing I’d like to call on the feminist community to report on and keep track of. In Utah HB 461 has passed in the house and has been sent to the state senate. This bill would increase the abortion waiting period from 24 to 72 hours– the longest in the nation. Utah currently has some of the most restrictive and insulting abortion laws in the nation.

Here, a woman’s abortion is not considered voluntary or informed until she meets face to face with a practitioner, waits 24 72 hours, her doctor informs ...

Perhaps this hasn’t been reported on in the national press much because there is currently so much going on with women’s rights and choice. This is one more thing I’d like to call on the ...

Valentine’s Rape Culture

Here is a story that blew my mind.

A girl at BYU was on campus Valentine’s day when she was handed a note that read:

“You may want to consider that what you’re wearing has a negative effect on men (and women) around you. Many people come to this university because they feel safe, morally as well as physically, here. They expect others to abide by the Honor Code that we all agreed on. Please consider your commitment to the Honor Code (which you agreed to) when dressing each day. Thank you.”

The anonymous author was gone before the girl could read the note or respond and left no identifying information. The first question that sprang to ...

Here is a story that blew my mind.

A girl at BYU was on campus Valentine’s day when she was handed a note that read:

“You may want to consider that what you’re wearing has a negative effect ...

The Burqa Ban in France

This is a piece I wrote for my international human rights class last semester. It may seem outdated since it’s talking about the burqa ban in France, but I would like to put it out there because it basically criticizes the same logic that lead to the banning of Muslim women who covered their bodies by FIFA. That logic is: we don’t like an opressive religion that tells women to wear a restrictive and limited dress code so we’re going to restrict them from chosing to wear that… by further limiting their choices and power within society (or more recently, soccer). So.. they want to liberate women from a religion telling them what to do by having states or organizations ...

This is a piece I wrote for my international human rights class last semester. It may seem outdated since it’s talking about the burqa ban in France, but I would like to put it out there because ...

Gang Rape of a Fifth Grader and Victim Blaming

You may ask, how can one blame an 11 year old girl for her own rape?

Well, apparently by reporting her viscous kidnapping and gang rape which was filmed, photographed, and distributed to other students then reporting that she wore clothes beyond her age, lots of make up, and hung around older boys instead of other little girls like she should have. Oh and just so she isn’t the only woman responsible for her rape, neighbors want to know, “Where was her mother?” A good question, but a better one would be were her PARENTS and family, and where were the families of all the 18 suspects who were apparently raised to think they could attack young girls?

Feel free to ...

You may ask, how can one blame an 11 year old girl for her own rape?

Well, apparently by reporting her viscous kidnapping and gang rape which was filmed, photographed, and distributed to other students then reporting ...

LDS leadership takes a crap on Gay Rights (Again)

I get to hear A LOT about the Mormon church.  Last weekend was the biggest event of the year for LDS, conference weekend. Every Mormon is supposed to go or watch as the church gathers to affirm their faith. Many Utahns and members and allies of the LGBTQ community were hoping the church would relax it’s harsh stance on homosexuality (not to mention sexual orientations the church is not yet aware of).

Of course it was a disaster.

I get to hear A LOT about the Mormon church.  Last weekend was the biggest event of the year for LDS, conference weekend. Every Mormon is supposed to go or watch as the church gathers to affirm ...