Nothing like a little sex talk
Go to Mouse Words immediately and check out the discussion on guys who won't go down. I don't know why I didn't see this before today (it was posted Monday).
I've always said that when it comes to straight guys and oral sex, they fall into three categories: guys who just won't do it, guys who act like they're doing a huge fucking favor by doing it, and guys who love it.
There is only one kind of guy that is acceptable (at least for me).










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I have been intending to ask for a while: is there any reason you force every single external link to open in a different window? I can make it open in a new window myself if I want to if there's no such link type, but it's a real pain to make it open in the same window when it automatically starts a new window. I can fiddle with all my settings to make it open in new tabs -- but then all the settings I want for most other sites are broken.
wolfangel --
Personally, it really annoys me to have to open every link in a new window manually, so I love the automatic new-windowing. I guess it's just one of those things.
I've always said that when it comes to straight women and oral sex, there are three types: women who just won't do it, women who act like they're doing a huge fucking favor by doing it, and women who love it.
There is only one kind of woman that is acceptable (at least for me).
(If I were to say the above, I imagine none of you would overreact with things like: "You think women exist only to PLEASE YOU?! Huh? You think you OWN us and can ORDER US AROUND?! Huh? You think we're just sex objects?! Newsflash: WE HAVE BRAINS and can think for ourselves! We're not your slaves! Etc! Etc!")
Well, Voxper, I articulated my own situtation in which I contrasted my willingness to perform oral sex on my current sexual partner with her unwillingness to do so.
And you know what? I didn't at all get a negative response. I got some supportive commentary. From straight women.
I know, it's amazing.
Linnaeus, perhaps you didn't see my post properly-- I said "I imagine none of you" would overreact in such a way. Does my correct statement bother you?
I was responding to your apparent sarcasm by offering a counternarrative. It appeared to me that you were positing one possible response to your hypothetical as a way to generalize about the reaction to your hypothetical.
And, we really wouldn't know if your statement is correct unless you actually tried it. That's all.