The Feministing Five: 2012 round up

It’s a new year. Out with the old, in with the new. I’ve been running this column since 2011 and I’ve interviewed feminists all around the world, young and old, famous and unknown. Before we dive into another year of awe-inspiring feminist profiles, let’s recap some of the gems from 2012, just in case you missed any. The people I’ve interviewed inspire me immeasurably and the wisdom they’ve shared remind me just how vibrant the feminist movement still is. We’ve faced some serious setbacks, to be sure, but that doesn’t mean we’re not still out here fighting for justice.

On that note, make sure you continue sending me suggestions for people to interview. Remember, they can be anyone you think is doing great work to advance gender equality or social justice. If you know any organizers, students, relatives, friends, writers, artists (you get the idea) that you’d like to see me profile, tweet me at @annafeminista or leave it in comments in any of the interview posts.

And now, without further ado, the Feministing Five 2012 round up.

Kerry Washington Actress/activist

Kerry Washington in white blouse

“In order for us to honor each other’s humanity, it’s important to see the full range of who we are. I’ve never had a career where I’ve said I won’t play a prostitute or I won’t play a thief or I won’t play a slave or I won’t play a maid, because for me there’s nothing wrong with playing those people. People who have a history of being a slave, a prostitute, a maid, a drug addict–those people are human beings too. We all deserve to have our stories told.”

Dregs One Rapper, activist and case worker

“I feel like there’s a lot of training around women’s rights for women, but for men, as boys, even me personally, we’re trained to try and dominate women. There’s the double standard of you sleep with hella women, you’re a player. You sleep with hella dudes, you’re a ho. The way I was trained was just like: “Man, we gon’ get a bottle, get these bitches drunk,” that’s what it was all about. You get clowned on for being a virgin and stuff like that. There needs to be more education for men to see what gender discrimination does, what it’s effects are, and why it’s wrong. Men who are conscious of that have the responsibility to pass that on to other men around them.”

Michael Kaufman Author and founder of the white ribbon campaign

Michael Kaufman smiling in black sweater

“We want to show that feminism is important and good for men… The wholesale engagement of men as fathers is a world historic change in our lifetime and that’s because of the women’s movement. Feminism is a positive challenge transforming the lives of men.”

Favi Vocalist, artist and activist

Favi

“Everything I do is guided by the belief that all cultural production and art is political; anything aesthetic has a political context. Drake singing, “Money over everything,” to me, that’s a political statement. Capitalism is so normalized that we think about any statement [endorsing] materialism as apolitical, when it’s not. It’s representing a certain set of ideals and has been force fed to us as a part of colonialism.”

Rocky Rivera Pt. I & Pt. II Rapper and journalist

“I do feel at this day and age even in the past 3 years there’s been a lot of young Filipinas that have come up and started rapping, but they have yet to touch on the things that we all go through. I don’t consider one Asian emcee to be a success story for all of us. I don’t like to tokenize who we are and what we go through.”

Hari Kondabolu & Janine Brito Comedians and writers for FX’s Totally Biased with W. Kamau Bell

HK: “There are folks who talk about headlines, politics and figures, but when your politics is essential to who you are as a person, there is no separation. That’s always the frustrating thing when we talk about our points of view as people of color, as minorities. Whenever we talk about who we are, it gets niched. As if our point of view is not a mainstream point of view, as if we only speak for a small percentage of people.”

JB: “I especially like going on stage as an androgynous woman and saying, ‘Straight guys, I’m not for you in this way and I don’t give a shit what you think.’ I feel like they need to get taken down a notch and society accommodates them in every way possible with regard to advertising and using sexuality in advertising. I just like to remind them: I don’t care what you think.”

Darcy Burner Democratic candidate, House of Representatives, 2012

Darcy Burner in green collared shirt, wearing glasses, smiling

“There are a lot of people that believe that men are entitled to have power over women. I fundamentally disagree. I am of the radical belief that women are actually full human beings.”

Mary González: Texas state representative and first out pansexual legislator

“I felt it was an important time to raise awareness that just because you identify as LGBT, doesn’t necessarily mean you’re lesbian. It can mean a variety of different things. First, I was saying I’m pansexual, which most people haven’t heard before, especially in Texas. Second, I identified as pansexual because there are more than two genders. People get scared when you say that. And not only are there more than two genders, but I am attracted and have loved people who have identified within a third gender space.”

Rose Aguilar Radio host, author and volunteer with the Op-Ed Project

“I’ve been in radio now for 17 years. Seeing women second guess themselves on a regular basis is really frustrating to me. The media is still so male dominated. When you look at the guests on TV or the op-ed pages, they’re dominated by men. If you call an executive director of an organization, nine times out of ten that person is a man. If we were not consciously going past the author, or the person who did the report and went down to the ground, our show would be male dominated.”

Barbara Carrellas Author, sex educator, sex/life coach, motivational speaker and theater artist

Red background, Barbara Carrellas laughing

“I felt that women were being shoved into boxes by politicians, churches, big pharma, the media, etc. If you do not fit neatly into one of their boxes, they tell you that you need to be saved, fixed, changed or reformed. There is no one-size-fits-all way to be sexual. We are each in the process of our own personal ongoing, lifelong, sexual evolution.”

Emily Heller Comedian

“I think the biggest PR problem feminists have is that people don’t really know what feminism is. They don’t realize that feminism just means ‘people who believe in equality.’ They think it’s ‘radical castrating humorless bitches who don’t want anyone to have any fun.’ And they think, ‘Well, I don’t agree with those people, so I must not be a feminist.’”

Melissa McEwan Founder and editor-in-chief, Shakesville

Melissa on the beach with her two dogs

“I don’t have a clear, singular moment of coming to feminism, but I do remember the precise moment I decided I was not going to hate myself for being fat. I was in high school, and I saw my mother, who is an in-betweenie—and who, by the way, is incredibly physically fit and a beautiful woman—reach for the peanut butter in the kitchen cabinet, a spoonful of which is one of her favorite treats. Instead of eating the spoonful of peanut butter she wanted, she put the jar back then slapped herself in the face…It was a scary thing for me to see.”

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2 Comments

  1. Posted January 5, 2013 at 3:11 pm | Permalink

    Michael Kaufman is an idiot if he things that feminism assisted stay at home dads. If anything feminism has supported traditional gender norms when it has come to parenting seeing an advantage for women in family courts and attempting to maintain it.

    Feminists opposed allowing fathers to challenge adoptions for children born out of wedlock. Feminists argued against the putative father’s registry, which isn’t anywhere close to ensuring that a father’s rights are protected, but at least it’s something. No one is forcing women to raise their children. It was simply out of concern that women couldn’t relinquish their financial responsibility. One of feminism’s first organizations, NOW, had a chapter in Michigan that opposed giving men the opportunity to establish paternity for children they fathered with another man’s wife.

    Feminists are some of the staunchest opponents of shared parenting. They have opposed criminalizing visitation interference in the past. The MRM has never advocated parental rights for rapists or child abusers. The sticking point has always been whether a parent would be required to actually prove abuse and what level of proof would be required. Feminists always argue that if these laws are past that women will be forced to turn their children over to abusive spouses. Wrong, if the legislation is past women will be forced to prove that their spouses is abusive and can no longer maliciously prevent a father from seeing his children with a mere lie.

    The best possible interpretation is that feminists aren’t able to see their own privilege and have been blinded by the societal belief that women are more moral than men and would never hurt their children to gain an advantage for themselves. The worst possible interpretation is that some feminists believe that feminism is a women’s empowerment movement that doesn’t or shouldn’t stop at women being equal to men or it’s a movement that believes that women should be equal to men, but not necessarily the reverse.

    Feminism has done a lot of good things for women (and possibly for men too. I’m still looking for something definitive.). The best way to engage men in feminism is to actually ensure that feminism looks out for men. I’ll sometimes ask a feminist what are you going to do when 10 or 20 years from now people realize that feminism was on the wrong side of history when it came to father’s rights. Now I know. They intend to rewrite history.

  2. Posted January 8, 2013 at 10:09 am | Permalink

    Anna,

    Thank you so much for this roundup of your incredible work in 2012! I especially loved getting to know the new SYTYCB contributors through your column this year, as well as the amazing Kerry Washington interview. Still can’t believe you scored that! Can’t wait to meet the leaders you decide to profile in 2013.

    xo
    Lori

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