I just think this is a little weird

I just read this article on CNN.com. The author, Fernanda Moore, discusses how she tried to discipline her husband by using the techniques she picked up in parenting guides – and which have been successful on her children.
Beyond the weirdness of treating your husband like a child, the author also seems to resent staying at home with the kids and portrays her husband as ungrateful.
I don’t know. It all seems strange. I’d prefer a partner – male OR female – who doesn’t need to be treated like a child, who respects me, and who helps around the house without being “creatively disciplined.”