Loving your day job is a privilege

Lauren had an understandably strong reaction to Courtney’s post last week about her daily schedule. In a follow-up post, Lauren described her own work life — and the economic situation surrounding her — and wrote:

The other day, when I wrote, “a room of one’s own is a privilege most of us don’t — and won’t ever — have,” I wasn’t trying to score some dramatic rhetorical point, or punish a successful person for being happy or having fulfilling work. In today’s economic hierarchy some of us will be stuck on Maslow’s lower rungs while others celebrate their own impending self-actualization — this isn’t a debate. But only one of these climbers gets the microphone.

She takes this a step further — asking how, as the feminist blogosphere comes into more prominence, the writing of Professional Feminists might diverge from that of non-Professional Feminist women. While I wouldn’t identify as a Professional Feminist — I have a full-time day job that’s not explicitly in the movement — I am an editor and writer by profession. (Incidentally, I have actually been Lauren’s editor before!) And I am grateful nearly every day that I have a full-time job that fulfills both my economic needs and my personal passion. Having a job I love is a privilege. And I do acknowledge the fact that this privilege affects not only what I write here on Feministing (and occasionally on TAPPED), but how I assign and edit articles. When I recently blogged about The New York Times‘ coverage of how upper-middle-class two-parent families are coping with the recession’s gender implications, I wrote:

I understand that it’s more interesting for the Times to write about gender dynamics in two-partner families where the male is the breadwinner. But, after awhile, the disproportionate coverage of impact of the economy on the upper-middle-class sends the message that these are the people who are most affected. That simply isn’t true.

I’ve heard many people retort that, well, the people who read/buy the Times are upper-middle-class, and so that’s the population they predominantly cover. But I don’t think that’s the whole story. I think it has way more to do with the economic status of the editors and reporters at the paper. Their friends are upper-middle-class professionals. They hear their friends discuss gender and the recession. They write an article that, surprise, happens to focus on upper-middle-class families. In their daily lives, I’d wager they don’t actually hear from too many laid-off Midwest workers. (Which isn’t to say they receive no coverage — just demonstrably less, especially considering who’s being impacted by the recession.)
Bringing it all back to Lauren’s post and the Professional Feminist quandary, I think much of this applies to blogging, too. Most bloggers I know (especially women bloggers), feel most comfortable speaking to their own experience and community. Understandably so. It takes a concerted, sustained effort to write about people and dynamics beyond your personal experience, your own community.
This gets thorny to pull apart, because this conversation gets personal — and folks get defensive — really fast. I know both Courtney and Lauren personally, I know they are both incredibly smart, talented, and driven women. I know they both come to this conversation willing to, well, have a conversation! (Which is awesome.) It’s not that one has done more to “earn” a career she loves, and neither one is getting rich. While it is indeed a privilege to make money doing what you love, for most of us, it is not lucrative.
A lot of this is lurking in the background of stories about job loss and career-shifting during this recession. Work is SO deeply tied to identity in this country, for better or worse, and so when jobs are at risk, everyone (yes, women too. duh.) feels pretty damn vulnerable. Talking about how our work-lives intersect and overlap with and inform our feminism is a conversation I want to continue. As Courtney wrote in comments to her post,

The post wasn’t intended to be some sort of arrogant display of my day. As I said in the intro, I’d like to hear how others’ days are composed in many different professions. I think privilege comes from secrecy and I was trying to be open about what one real day was like for me for those who are interested in the fields I work in.

I’ve already asked a friend of mine to write a guest post about how she is coping with being unemployed, as this is an experience I can’t speak to personally. I would love to publish more stories from Feministing readers about how the recession has affected you — and about how your daily routine affects your feminism. Send them to me at ANN [AT] FEMINISTING [DOT] COM.